A few thoughts…
Before 1920, we women could not vote. Slowly we are gaining ground at many levels, including the political arena, but not enough and not fast enough. “Over the course of our nation’s history, we have had nearly two thousand men in the Senate–but only fifty women!” [Nevertheless She Persisted by Senator Amy Klobuchar] Despite progress in female political representation, a woman has yet to be elected to the highest office
A hundred years ago, many men believed “women shouldn’t worry their pretty little heads about politics.” Our best option for our gender to gain power used to be through the men we “caught” and married. In those times, surface impressions were especially important for a woman’s climb upward but today, in the 21st century, women seem to continue to seek power through outward appearances.
I am talking especially about women’s feet. We torture ourselves with our footwear choices. Why? Studies have shown that women get more positive attention from men when wearing stilettos.* This helps our self-esteem. We feel sexier because of how high heels make our legs look longer and how these shoes force our hips to move in an alluring way. There is also the additional height that brings us closer to eye-to-eye contact with men.
But this is at a cost to our spines and the health of our feet. Is it really worth it? Perhaps, instead of accepting what has long been the norm, we should work on changing universal perceptions.
Think about this. What man would go through this type of pain to attract attention?What man would sacrifice his feet for power? What man would wear stilettos and accept that it is necessary to be successful?
We women are at least as smart as men but our choices do not always show it. When it comes to raising ourselves up, stilettos only accomplish this on a superficial level. It’s about time we used our brains instead of our feet!
* For a much better perspective on this topic, readers should check out an informative and balanced article by Stacey Hutson.
(Like all females, Bonnie Schupp once coveted very high heels as a teenager, looking forward to the sophistication and status associated with this footwear. After a short time, however, she concluded that she was not a masochist and does not own high heeled shoes. She has earned a Bachelor of Arts, a Master of Liberal Arts and a Doctor of Communications Design. Her feet are happy.)
Other articles you might want to explore:
“Some female festival-goers were barred from the red carpet for wearing flat shoes. Mais naturellement – because in order to be truly chic, a woman should be hobbled and in physical pain from her footwear.” https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/may/20/heels-cannes-red-carpet-flat-shoes
The Most Unfeminist Clothing in History. https://www.bustle.com/articles/158188-the-most-unfeminist-clothing-in-history
The Fate of Women. http://bjschupp.blogspot.com/2018/04/the-fate-of-women.html